Orville Behm

Orville Donald "Don" Behm Jr.

Friday, November 12th, 1937 - Monday, September 28th, 2020
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Obituary

Orville Donald "Don" Behm died Monday September 28, 2020 at his home in Berkeley Heights, NJ. He was 82.
Don was born in Chicago, Ill, on November 12, 1937 a son to the late Lois (Glyn) and Orville D. Behm Sr., lived throughout Louisiana as his father traveled as a Baptist Minister, moving to Berkeley Heights in 1981.
He was a graduate of Logansport High School in Louisiana, and received 2 Bachelors degrees in Music from McNeese State University and 2 Masters of Music from LSU.
He worked as a Music Teacher and Director of Music for the University Baptist Church for over 15 years, for the East Baton Rouge Parish School Band in Louisiana, and the Columbia Middle School, in Berkeley Heights, NJ before retiring.
Don was a composer of Music and was commissioned by the New Jersey Youth Symphony and the Princeton Orchestra. He was a true lover of music playing multiple instruments including strings and the piano.
He is survived by his wife Glenda (Cain) Behm, his brother Robert Lee Behm, and 2 sisters Joyce Behm Harris and her husband Gordon, and Jeannie Behm West and her husband Kenneth. He is also survived by many nieces, nephews, and nieces and nephews.
A Memorial Visitation will be Friday October 16, 2020 from 2-4 PM at the Valley Memorial Funeral Home 1012 Valley Rd., Gillette, NJ, with a 3:30 PM Words of remembrance Service. led by Rev Kenneth West. Donations: can be made on website sumitsymphony.org or make checks to: Friends of Summit Symphony,
c/o Jim Dykema, 28 Headley Road, Morristown, NJ 07960
For more information and online condolences visit valleymemorialfuneralhome.net.
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Service Details

  • Visitation

    Friday, October 16th, 2020 | 2:00pm - 4:00pm
    When
    Friday, October 16th, 2020 2:00pm - 4:00pm
    Location
    Valley Memorial Funeral Home
    Address
    1012 Valley Rd
    GILLETTE, NJ 07933
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  • Service

    Friday, October 16th, 2020 | 3:30pm
    When
    Friday, October 16th, 2020 3:30pm
    Location
    Valley Memorial Funeral Home
    Address
    1012 Valley Rd
    GILLETTE, NJ 07933
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  • Interment

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Dr. Ralph P. Ferrie

Posted at 10:08am
Please accept my sincere condolences. I was very fond of Don and enjoyed working with him. He was such a treasure and had such a positive impact on the Columbia Middle School students. I will never forget his tribute to me when I left the District. It was so funny and enjoyable. I also still have several of the sketches that he gifted to me framed and displayed in our home. May he Rest In Peace and know that he shared his musical talents with the students in an exceptional manner.

Dr. Ralph P. Ferrie
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Jill Conner

Posted at 12:29pm
Uncle Don will be deeply missed. His laughter, music, art and lovely insights on life will always be remembered.
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Jody Pfeiffer

Posted at 08:42am
During my time teaching (Art) in Berkeley Heights, Don modestly mentioned that the had been 'fooling around with watercolors' and offered to share them with the students. 'Messing around' was hardly the correct phrase! What a talent. Thank you, Don, for sharing so much of your talents with us.
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Eileen Eisner

Posted at 12:20am
There are so many ways to remember Don. He was so kind and such a fine gentleman. We visited Don and Glenda a few years ago and we were blown away listening to his music, looking at his paintings and just in awe of his many talents. He so loved my cousin, Glenda, and she was so devoted to him right back. Our prayers and our love are with you.
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Lorraine Lake

Posted at 02:21pm
My first memories of Don are from not long after myself and my family moved to Berkeley Heights from the United Kingdom.
I realized that the neighbor across the street from us was music teacher to my children. It was actually my Mother-in-Law that introduced Don and Glenda to me. I happened to mention to my Mom-in-Law that the gentleman in the Stetson just about to enter his home was our music teacher. Gilda (Mom-in-Law) promptly announced that she was going to introduce herself and before I could blink, she left and did just that!. Two hours later, Gilda returned home to fetch her violin (I forgot to mention the she played violin in her local orchestra in the UK) and said she had been invited to dinner and was going to accompany Don on his piano. That was over 15 years ago and Don and Glenda have been dear friends of our family ever since, in fact, I would say they are more family than friends. We’ve spent many Thanksgivings together, with Don regaling us with his stories and demonstrating his unusual talent of being able to hum and whistle different tunes at the same time! Don was such a talented man both with his music and painting. My parents have one of his paintings on their study wall in England.
He was a true Gentleman with not a mean bone in his body. He always had a ready smile and will is missed terribly. Our family gatherings won’t be the same without him.
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