The loss of a loved one is a difficult thing, which only time can heal, and I share your grief. Over the years I've known Kati and Ruby they have told me so much about the amazing accomplishments in Mary's life. I hope your family can find some solace from a Walt Whitman poem: She is not gone. She is just away. With a cheery smile and a wave of the hand, she has wandered down to an unknown land, and left us wondering how very fair that land may be, since she tarries there.